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Truck Stop<\/h3>\n

After a morning start with two puncture it’s time to swap the front tyre, it’s put up a valiant effort but now the tougher spare must lead the way. Things go much smoother. Just before the sun sets I halt at a truck stop for some wifi and general life admin. A common routine, usually just for a beer or coffee before the light goes, but the young chef Sahin is chatty and soon a few more beers appear. As night falls I ask if I can sleep round the back of the cafe, he more than happy to accommodate, a few plates of his favorite dishes accompany the beers. Chain smoking into the night we talk of football and aspirations, next year he will be leaving for university to further his culinary passion. His brother joins us as midnight passes, but the mood drops, he’s found photos of me on Facebook; I’m wearing a bra which sparks angry questions of manhood with a homophobic twist. Discussion is hopeless through a thick language barrier reinforced with raki and an army background, notions of gender are set solid, he soon leaves us to our lighter conversation.<\/p>\n